“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
We are suffered from depression at a point in our life, and also have suffered from low esteem pretty much all the time. It’s not an abnormal trait that comparing ourselves to others. Especially in women because our brain is terrifically inventive, at our worst, we can find literally any thing as a proof that another woman is better than us.
Like, she’s is beautiful. She has nice physics. She has successful carrier. She has lots of money. She has nice cloths. She has brown eyes. She has blue eyes. All wasteful comparison stuff which we are comparing with others.
U know many times our thoughts would be like this how does she has the so much money? How does she have the energy to make herself look so fashionable? In our mind there is lots of such question which feels our self comparing.
Many times we feel ashamed of our own appearance by comparison. It’s really horrible that we mention close minded about the other women. We didn’t know their circumstances, their personality but we saw the outside and believed that it looked better than us.
They are just people. It’s us who thinks that they are better than us. We are the people who judge that one of us is prettier, more successful, and happier. We make all these comparison and then berate my selves, first for being a lesser being then them. And then latter for being irrational and silly.
But as it our reaction, our brain we have the power to do something about this. As with all insecurities, thought patterns, habits: it takes lots of work and practices and self forgiveness to teach ourselves to genuinely see our own awesomeness. For some of us it will be our life’s project. J
Just remember one thing we all are unique personality and a good sense of humor. If we work on our self-esteem and realize how lovely we are J then others, people won’t seem so threatening. Be kind, gentle, and nurturing to ourselves and we will feel less of a need to make comparison.


