Friday, August 9, 2013

ENJOY WHAT YOU ARE DOING



Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.





A  Gentleman visiting Thomas Alva Edison at Menlo Park, asked him to give a motto to his son who was just enter the business. The great inventor replied” well I will give him this, NEVER LOOK AT THE CLOCK.”

THE IMPLICATION of this small story is that if we enjoy what we are doing, then time pass without his knowledge. Clock watchers are bored with their work. Success eludes them. 



If u trust in what u are doing then  continue to do this with love, and it will take you  at that point where u want to go. So remember these lines;  doing what u like is FREEDOM and liking what you do is HAPPINESS.




Do what you love to do and give it your very best.  Whether it is business, baseball, acting or any field.  If u doesn’t love what actually you are doing then you are wasting your time because it will not give you, your best.  Life is too short before you knew it may be you will be become an old man .

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Love Your Enemies

“Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?” 

“Your enemy” doesn’t just mean the enemy of your state, of course. I am  not talking about terrorists  (kidding)!  I am  talking about people you really dislike, in any way. Maybe someone who has called you or gave you bad names or disrespected you in some way, causing you anger. maybe you hold a grudge against them. 

And what does it mean to love these people? Obviously i m not talking about romantic love :), its non romantic love . like-
love your enemies,   do good to those who hate you,   bless those who curse you,   pray for those who mistreat you.    If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn the other also. 
  
In today's world this message is the most difficult and overlooked.
specially today we generally use our comfort zone like-
  • tolerate your enemy
  • curse your enemy
  • pray that your enemy will get what’s coming
  • ignore your enemy. 

but a good challenge for us is to remember and realize our response to our enemy should be one of Proactive love. so love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great. 
 
Today i  want to tell you another inspiring story about "love your enemies". once upon a time there was an English commando killed a German soldier in war in France. he wrote a letter to the dead soldier's mother, as a soldier only. he wrote, it was his duty to killed her son. and he earnestly ask her forgiveness on that letter. he also wrote that after the war is over, he want opportunity to meet her personally . 


The dead boy mother received  his note several month letter and replied to the English soldier- " I find it in my heart to forgive you, even though you had killed my son ; if we are living after the war is over , i hope you will come to Germany to visit me....
that you may teke the place of my son in my home, also in my heart "

"The  implication of this story is that forgiveness brings peace of mind, improves your relationship and develop sanity."

so finally i would like to say that  “Love your enemies”. That’s a powerful message, and it turns out, one of the greatest challenges in life.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

MOTIVATION- The Key To Success


Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.


Everyone see’s success differently.. but if you ask me what I consider ‘success’ to be…There something success isn’t – is not fame, money or power. success is You have to be motivated and love what you do to be REALLY successful!  Today i want to tell you about motivation is the key of the success! with story.

 Lou Little was the football coach at Georgetown University.  one day college president came to him and said, "do you know Harold Chapman?", sure , Lou answered . he has been on my squad for years. he is an average player. problem is he is not well motivated.
then president said-" we just received a message that his father died. will you tell this news to him?"
then coach told Chapman the sad news." i am sorry son , if you want then you take a week off".
but the next Chapman was ready to play the game. then coach asked him that what are you doing here ?
then Chapman replied " today is a big game and he had to go play.
after some time the coach decided that if he won the toss then he would use him for the first play.

now Georgetown won the toss. during the game Chapman came like a tornado on the field . the coach was shocked at that time. then he blocked, he passed; he ran and he literally won the game for Georgetown that day .
after that in the locker room the coach asked ," what happened?" then Chapman said ..........................

MY Father was blind actually. only today he witnessed my game!
 the implication of this story is that MOTIVATION provides encouragement in people. same here he believed that his father would see his game after his death. this belief motivated him and finally he won the match .


Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice.