Be Genius In Human Relationship

 Look at the word responsibility—“response-ability”—the ability to choose your response. Highly proactive people recognize that responsibility. They do not blame circumstances, conditions, or conditioning for their behavior. Their behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on values, rather than a product of their conditions, based on feeling.

 

A boy born to a couple after eleven years of their married life.They both are loving couple and that boy was the apple of their eyes :) 

One morning, when the boy were around only two year old, the husband a medicine bottle open.  At that time he was going to late their office so he said to her wife to cap that bottle and keep it in the cupboard only . The wife was very busy with her work at that time so she forgot the matter . The boy went playfully went that bottle up and drank it all. That medicine is poison actually. When the child showed signs of poisoning the wife took that boy to the hospital , where he actually died . :(

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was faced her husband. When the husband came to the hospital and just saw the child, he looked at his wife and said just four words ........

The husband said," I LOVE YOU"

the husband give unexpected reaction that is called proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationship. The child is dead. He can never come back to their life. There is no point to finding fault in his wife.  she also lost her child. What she needed at that time- that was consolation and sympathy from her husband. that is what husband gave to her. 

 

 Therefore, if everyone can look at his life with this kind of perspective there there would be much fewer problems in the world.